Butler-Stumpff & Dyer Funeral Home & Crematory
2103 E 3rd St, Tulsa, OK, 74104
Questions to Ask When You Call
You're not expected to know this. These questions help you compare and avoid surprises.
“Can I see your General Price List?”
Federal law (FTC Funeral Rule) requires them to give you itemized pricing. You have every right to ask.
“Do you accept insurance assignment?”
This means they bill the insurance company directly. You don't pay thousands upfront and wait to be reimbursed.
“What's included vs. what's extra?”
Packages may not include everything. Ask about the casket, embalming, transportation, facility fees, and death certificate copies.
Know Your Rights
The FTC Funeral Rule protects you. Every funeral home must provide an itemized General Price List if you ask — in person or over the phone. You are never required to buy a package and can choose services individually. You also have the right to use a casket purchased elsewhere.
Payment & Financial Options
Average in Oklahoma
$2,121 – $6,671
Source: NFDA 2023 · Direct cremation to traditional burial
If they had life insurance, it can cover this
Funerals in this area run $2,121–$6,671. If your loved one had a life insurance policy, the benefit can cover these costs — and we'll file the claim and handle the carrier for you, even without the policy number. $0 upfront, and nothing if it doesn't pay out.
Services Offered
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What Families Say
“I worked with Alexandria after my mother passed away in the Midwest. Communicating from NY and getting my mother's remains back to NJ for services, they were very caring, understanding of unique situation and able to take care of things I wouldn't even begin to know how to. Used email communication throughout whole process and smoothly transition mom back to east coast. Thank you all from bottom of my broken heart.”
— Sara Jensen
“I want thank everyone for an amazing homegoing for my father. From Kristine to Mark and Mona. I can't thank you enough for the love and detail shown for my father.”
— J W
“I’m deeply grateful to Butler-Stumpff & Dyer for the compassionate and professional care they provided. From start to finish, Alex and Kristine were incredibly kind, attentive, and thoughtful in guiding me through the process of handling my mother’s remains. What stood out most were the personal touches—the time they took to answer questions and hear my stories, the gentle way they handled every step, and the genuine respect they showed for my mother and our family. Their approach reminded me how vital it is to have a caring, community-focused small business helping with these matters. The level of attention, empathy, and grace they offered made a lasting impression. Alex and Kristine: thank you for making such a difficult process more bearable. I recommend Butler-Stumpff & Dyer without hesitation to anyone seeking a funeral home with heart.”
— John Phelan
We can help with what comes next.
We file the life insurance claim and recover unclaimed property — the payout can help cover costs like these. $0 upfront.
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