DiStasio Funeral Chapel
478 NY-83, South Dayton, NY, 14138
Questions to Ask When You Call
You're not expected to know this. These questions help you compare and avoid surprises.
“Can I see your General Price List?”
Federal law (FTC Funeral Rule) requires them to give you itemized pricing. You have every right to ask.
“Do you accept insurance assignment?”
This means they bill the insurance company directly. You don't pay thousands upfront and wait to be reimbursed.
“What's included vs. what's extra?”
Packages may not include everything. Ask about the casket, embalming, transportation, facility fees, and death certificate copies.
“Do you offer payment plans?”
Many funeral homes allow you to spread the cost over time. Ask about down payments, terms, and financing options.
Know Your Rights
The FTC Funeral Rule protects you. Every funeral home must provide an itemized General Price List if you ask — in person or over the phone. You are never required to buy a package and can choose services individually. You also have the right to use a casket purchased elsewhere.
Payment & Financial Options
Average in New York
$3,368 – $10,595
Source: NFDA 2023 · Direct cremation to traditional burial
If they had life insurance, it can cover this
Funerals in this area run $3,368–$10,595. If your loved one had a life insurance policy, the benefit can cover these costs — and we'll file the claim and handle the carrier for you, even without the policy number. $0 upfront, and nothing if it doesn't pay out.
Services Offered
What Families Say
“Dan DiStacio was so wonderful. He came to the Morse Funeral in Brocton, NY to fill in for there director. It was a preplanned funeral and he handled everything with respect and grace. South Dayton should be happy to have the DiStacio Family in their time of need. Thank you DiStacio's ❤️”
— Kathy McAllister
“The Distasio Funeral services made this difficult time as well as my family and I could have asked. Dan and his staff were kind calm and professional. Dan asked several times if you need anything at all I’m here for you. He honored every single request no matter how small. I would recommend them to anyone. Thank you!”
— steve m
“My family had a terrible experience here! My daughters grand father passed away after being very sick and these people have no compassion at all. They were asking questions about his illness and describing how much water weight he had during the embalming process.... and asking why he had jaundice so bad. That’s not to mention the harassment about the payments and calling at 9am demanding that a check be brought down! We never even really saw the funeral home director during the services! A horrible experience during a time of grief”
— Shannon Reed
We can help with what comes next.
We file the life insurance claim and recover unclaimed property — the payout can help cover costs like these. $0 upfront.
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