Stanleys Funeral & Cremation Service
3959 E 31st St, Tulsa, OK, 74135
Questions to Ask When You Call
You're not expected to know this. These questions help you compare and avoid surprises.
“Can I see your General Price List?”
Federal law (FTC Funeral Rule) requires them to give you itemized pricing. You have every right to ask.
“Do you accept insurance assignment?”
This means they bill the insurance company directly. You don't pay thousands upfront and wait to be reimbursed.
“What's included vs. what's extra?”
Packages may not include everything. Ask about the casket, embalming, transportation, facility fees, and death certificate copies.
Know Your Rights
The FTC Funeral Rule protects you. Every funeral home must provide an itemized General Price List if you ask — in person or over the phone. You are never required to buy a package and can choose services individually. You also have the right to use a casket purchased elsewhere.
Payment & Financial Options
Average in Oklahoma
$2,121 – $6,671
Source: NFDA 2023 · Direct cremation to traditional burial
If they had life insurance, it can cover this
Funerals in this area run $2,121–$6,671. If your loved one had a life insurance policy, the benefit can cover these costs — and we'll file the claim and handle the carrier for you, even without the policy number. $0 upfront, and nothing if it doesn't pay out.
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What Families Say
“Where do I start about how wonderful Stanley’s Funeral Home was with my loved ones arrangements… The staff was professional and filled all needs and answered all of the many questions. I especially want to give kudos to Cassandra, the Funeral Director, I know it takes a special kind of person to perform her job duties and she definitely is in the right profession. She was very caring in such a difficult time and situation. Also wanted to say specifically how nice and meaningful the military honors were for my loved one which they planned”
— Jill Allison
“I was able to seamlessly provide my Brother, a Navy Veteran, the funeral services he had previously pre-paid, after his sudden death with the local assistance of Cassandra at Stanley Funeral Home in Tulsa! I am living in California and my Beloved Brother was in Oklahoma and in my time of need Cassandra was EXTREMELY professional and truly Compassionate in handling my Beloved Brother’s burial at Ft. Gibson Veterans Cemetery without a single hitch! My late Beloved Brother is now gratefully at peace in large part due to Cassandra and Stanley Funeral Home in Tulsa! I do not know where I would have been without them! Do not hesitate to have them handle your burial needs if you find yourself in need of assistance for your loved one🤗”
— Ellen Rayner
“I can’t tell you how wonderful it was to have Cassandra at Stanleys walking me through my father’s passing. From the first moment, I knew that I would be taken care of. I knew nothing about making arrangements, so i appreciated Cassandra walking me through the process, and answering a bunch of questions. My experience with Stanleys was superb care, and they made this process, so much smoother than I could have dreamed. If you want knowledgeable people who want to guide you through this process, call Cassandra at Stanleys. You will be taken care of.”
— Chris Chauncey
We can help with what comes next.
We file the life insurance claim and recover unclaimed property — the payout can help cover costs like these. $0 upfront.
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